I strongly dislike social events (to the extent of hate). Coz I don't like to talk, dont see the point of meaningless chatter. Don't need to cultivate relationships for some material benefits (this one is open to debate).
So whenever I am "forced" due to commitments, to attend some social gathering, I would no doubt find a way to hide, disappear, or merge myself into the wall. [I look like some lost poor soul at this sort of events]
Well, a good spiritual friend gave me some sound advice.
Instead of just wandering around, or standing there aimlessly, I should just focus, concentrate, and use the opportunity to nian fo.
That will be a good use of time, prevent my mind from wondering, and reduce the irritation at having to be at such events.
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