Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Hunting for a boy/girlfriend?

This is meant to be a fun entry.
Was chatting and kidding ard with yen the other day, and he came up with his own version of the four noble truths. (We were talking abt men/dating)

1. There is more than 1 man in the world
2. The man that you choose is not the best man
3. The dream man that you want is non-existent
4. You dont need man to survive

Each sentence on its own is so true. And yet pple are still clinging on to the vision of a dream man. The white knight who will come riding along to "save" you from misery.
No wonder all those shows with a Cinderalla theme is so popular.

But all these are attachment. Attachment to love, to the physical, to society's expectations.
We do NOT need these attachments!

From another angle, women can survive without man. So why the desire to be part of a couple?
Why be attached to something that is not real and might not last?

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